The Torah recounts that when Hashem finished speaking with Moses on Mount Sinai, He gave him the two Tablets of Testimony, stone tablets inscribed by the finger of G-d. Commentators note the unusual spelling of the word for 'finished,' interpreting it as related to the word for 'bride,' teaching that the Torah was given to Moses like a bride to a groom — as a precious gift that must be acquired and cherished.
The Sages explain that during the forty days on the mountain, Moses repeatedly learned and forgot the Torah until it was ultimately granted to him as a gift. This forgetfulness was not due to limitation, but intentional, to teach that even the greatest leader had to toil persistently. The message is that one must continue learning despite frustration or forgetfulness, for sustained effort leads to lasting acquisition.
Several commentators describe the forty days as a transformative period in which Moses rose above physical limitations, enabling him to receive both the Oral Torah and the Tablets directly from Hashem. The giving of the Tablets marked not only the completion of Divine instruction, but also Moses’ spiritual refinement.
The broader lesson drawn is that Torah cannot be acquired casually. Just as a groom cleaves to his bride, one must cleave to Torah with devotion and effort. Although ultimate understanding is a gift from Above, that gift is granted only after sincere and persistent toil.

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